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Today, as I am commemorating what would have been your 40th birthday, Mary, my heart is filled with a medley of emotions. Your journey, though marked by the challenges of Cystic Fibrosis, was a beacon of courage, vulnerability, and stamina. Your life was a testament to living each moment to the fullest, embracing every ‘TaDa’ moment with open arms and a contagious zest for life.

Born on November 27, 1983, in Guelph, Ontario, you entered this world bringing light and love. You always knew how unique and special you were, Mary. Each moment was precious, and you lived your life with an unwavering spirit of celebration, symbolized by your favorite expression, “TaDa!” This wasn’t just a word for you; it was a philosophy, a way to acknowledge and cherish every achievement, big or small.

Your TaDa moments weren’t just about joy; they were also about hope and purpose. You wanted to pack as many of these moments into your life as possible, sharing them generously with friends and family. Known for your “singing arms-flung” expressions, you became an embodiment of joy and resilience.

As your father, I’ve always been in awe of your strength and your planning, even in your final moments. Your eyes, full of contentment and hope, spoke volumes as you embraced your last TaDa moment. You transitioned on July 24, 2017, at home, surrounded by love, fulfilling your wish to leave peacefully, in stark contrast to the often lonely and painful exits faced by many with CF.

Your legacy extends beyond your physical presence. The Mary Boleyn Hospice Foundation Inc, inspired by your vision, now stands as a beacon of hope and support for CF families, ensuring they receive the care and comfort they need during their most challenging times. The Thumb’s Up TaDa logo symbolizes your enduring spirit, raising awareness and funds for hospice care.

Your father’s songs, written in your honor, resonate with the love and purpose you instilled in all of us. The lyrics, “Now I miss you sometimes more than I can bear,” echo the deep void left by your absence, yet also remind us of the enduring bond between a father and his daughter. Your life, although cut short, was a melody of love, hope, and unwavering spirit.

In your own words, Mary, spoken following the Coins for Change event, every sentence needs a new breath, and every dream needs a new challenge. You lived by these words, turning every challenge into an opportunity to make a difference. Your speech at the Kinsmen’s Club remains a powerful reminder of your determination and vision.

As I celebrate your life today, I am reminded of your unwavering spirit, your love for life, and the legacy you have left behind. Mary Elizabeth Boleyn, you were, and always will be, a shining light in the lives of those you touched. Your TaDa moments continue to inspire us, and your legacy lives on in the hearts of many.

Happy 40th birthday, Mary. Your spirit continues to guide us, encouraging us to find joy in every moment and to live our lives with purpose and hope.

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